Regular Guy Chat with Anthony | Being A Better Man
A semi-regular feature of Real Men Feel is Regular Guy Chats. That is when I have a conversation with an average dude with nothing to promote, just a willingness to share.
The first Regular Guy Chat of 2023 features Anthony Scire. Like most men, Anthony wears many hats; personal trainer, father, husband, friend, mentor, and outdoor enthusiast, to name a few. In my experience, Anthony is, first and foremost, a good man.
We discuss Anthony's experiences growing up, encountering the "man box," the ManKind Project, and wanting to be a better man. We explore doing the hard inner work, honesty, integrity, authenticity, humor, and being of service.
Anthony shares a number of books that have helped him and what he's learned about himself after feeling disappointed by other men.
Topics and Questions
- 1:16 - What prompted you to get involved with the ManKind Project?
- 2:59 - How did you learn what it means to be a man?
- 4:43 - What led you to realize that this conditioning wasn't bringing out the best in you?
- 5:46 - What makes the difficult inner work worth it to you?
- 6:53 - Is it harder to be honest with yourself or with others?
- 8:08 - What are some of your best skills?
- 10:22 - How do you know you are a good husband and father?
- 12:21 - Why does service matter to you?
- 16:43 - What are you proud of?
- 18:15 - What is one thing you wish more men knew?
- 19:22 - Can you share a habit, book, or practice that has helped you?
- 21:49 - What man had the biggest impact on you?
- 23:10 - What was the root of your disappointment in men?
- 26:55 - Is that pattern of being disappointed driving you to be better?
- 29:25 - Is there some end state of a perfect man to reach?
- 28:23 - What are you looking forward to?
- 30:06 - Anything else you want to share?
- 32:22 - What's the best way for people to learn more and connect with you?
"I want to be that person I didn't have. A better human, a better man." - Anthony Scire
Links
Anthony Scire -- https://www.anthonyscire.com/
Recommended Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy, Iron John, The Wonder of Boys, Do Hard Things, and The Talent Code
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