Unleash Your Conscious Cock Episode 239, May 18, 2021
Sex educator, couples counselor & author, Kristopher Lovestone, joins us for a straightforward exploration of sexuality, relationships, understanding women, and much more.
“Conscious cock is about embodying our sexual power and masculinity in a positive way.” ~ Kristopher Lovestone
Between unrealistic physical standards, repressed emotions, and a severe lack of education, sexual dysfunction runs rampant among men. The GREAT news is that there are men like Kristopher Lovestone deeply committed to bringing the sacredness and intimacy back to the bedroom. Kristopher fully frames the topic, beginning with how the media and religion have instilled shame, and then moves into how we can regain sexual empowerment. Kristopher teaches how to communicate desire authentically and why deep-seated shame holds so many men back.
Unleashing your conscious cock is one of the most masculine and lion-hearted decisions you can make. Because our erotic and sensual natures are our most primal energies, it affects ALL areas of our lives. Hearing how Kristopher overcame fear and rejected toxic programming is an inspirational encouragement to work through these issues in our own lives. Offering tips from his book, “Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men”, Kristopher’s innovative strategies for sexual and relational health contains wisdom for every man.
Highlights and Topics:
- (1:26) What can men learn about sexuality from the archetype of the rooster?
- (4:01) Is there a well-f*cked woman behind every successful man?
- (8:20) How Kristopher rejected the narratives forced upon him.
- (12:00) Where does our sexual shame come from?
- (18:08) What about penis size makes men so insecure?
- (25:30) Why genital orgasm is just a small part of the total sexual experience.
- (29:40) Why are men so resistant to admitting that they don’t know?
- (32:05) Are men responsible for keeping the sexual spark alive?
- (34:35) How to talk about intimate topics in a safe and healthy way.
- (38:30) How to fight through fear and communicate your deepest desires.
- (41:30) Why joy, play, and curiosity are under-appreciated aspects of sexuality.
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“How much pleasure can you give without your orgasm being the final chapter in the story?” ~ Kristopher Lovestone
Connect with Kristopher Lovestone:
Website | ConsciousCock.com – Free resources including audio recordings and worksheets!
Book | “Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men” Kristopher recommends the audiobook but it’s also available in print!
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